To My Kids on Mother’s Day,
On Mother’s Day, I want to tell you thank you for making me a mom. Some mornings when I come down the stairs I don’t look very excited to be awake and making breakfast, and some nights I ask you if we can switch places and you can put me to bed. Sometimes you drive me crazy. But the truth is, I wouldn’t trade you for anything.
To #1, my seven-year-old girl: I am so amazed by you. I love your artistic, creative projects and paintings that you make and your beautiful handwriting. You are so helpful when you know I need an extra hand. I’m proud to have a little girl who is so thoughtful and considerate of other people and genuinely kind. You are fun and silly and calm and quiet. You are a wonderful, responsible big sister. I love getting to run with you. I also love hearing you read with such expression, and I love that you read the other kids bedtime stories. You are so good at understanding other people’s thoughts and feelings, well beyond your years.
To #2, my six-year-old boy: I just love the way your mind thinks about things. You have such a clever, organized, imaginative mind. You are my boy who will probably help me learn how to be organized. Even when you are so sleepy in the morning, you take the time to fold up your pajamas neatly. I love how you can design buildings and mechanical things in your head. I love your crayon drawings of tree houses that you color in deep, bright colors. I love that you ask to play a board game, with just you and me. I love your fancy bike riding tricks. And do you know what I really love? I love seeing how much you love your little sister. You can always make her smile.
To #3, my three-year-old: I love your sense of humor and your little jokes. You make me laugh. I love to see the projects you create using your two favorite things: strings and hooks. You are so creative, and I can’t wait to see the things you will make when you get bigger. You are a sweet boy with a kind heart. Sometimes you look at me with so much love in your eyes that I can hardly imagine someone could love me so much. I love watching you run. You bounce and skip across the grass so lightly that you look like you are floating. I can tell you are thinking a lot because you ask good questions and you use big words when you tell stories. I like reading with you on my lap before nap time.
To #4, my girl that just turned two: How did we ever get such a great little girl? You are such a loving little person. I love watching you take care of your babies: rocking them, singing them songs, and making nice beds for them. Everyone just falls in love with you because you’re so friendly. You like being held by so many people and you will give a hug to anyone that needs one. You are also such a smart and funny little girl. I love your silly dances and how you tell knock knock jokes, even when you’re nursing. You make me laugh. I love when you tell me the bathroom floor is “hot lava” and I can’t touch it, or when you pretend I’m “baby monster” and you try to take care of me.
Being your mom is a lot of work, but all of you are also so much fun. I love watching you grow and learn. It’s fun to look back at pictures of you from when you were babies, and see how much you’ve grown. I love to see you learning your letters and learning to read. I’m proud of how you are learning that being part of a family means that we all need to help out and love each other, even if we don’t always get along.
You might not know it, but I learn a lot from you. You teach me to give even when I’m tired, and you help remind me to have fun and enjoy the best things in life. And one of the best things in life is being your mom. Thanks for being my kids.